Sunday, January 6, 2008

HRT

In a previous post, I mentioned that a new beginning is caused by an old beginning coming to an end. For some, those words couldn't be any more true. It's tough when you lose a significant other. It's tougher when they're your best friend. And it's incalculable when your best friend decides that it's time to call a quits on the friendship and goes about erasing you from existence. Heartaches can cause even the most rational people to go completely insane, and when you're not completely rational to begin with (which pretty much covers every single person out there), the effects of a breakup can cause you to do unthinkably cold and cruel things. I can't imagine being able to say to someone that I truly loved, that I wish they had never existed, and that whatever time in the past that we shared together, has been erased. Just like that. With a snap of a finger, years vanish, and memories disappear faster than Britney Spears' sanity. I guess for some it's easier to be black and white, and hurt others so that they can share in your pain. I don't think there is anything you can really say when someone has decided that those actions are their only option. You can only hope that one day, they'll realize that a breakup isn't the end of the world, that when the pain finally fades, you can still be friends. For those of you out there who feel like you have no other option, I hope this quote can help enlighten you.

If I had the letters "HRT", I can add "EA" to get a "HEART" or a "U" and get "HURT". But I'd rather choose "U" and get "HURT" than have a "HEART" without "U"

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